Do I have to change my friends or can i keep them?

That is another interesting question. It depends on how close you are with them and how tolerant they are to you to change into something new. Most friends expect you to stay the way you are, in fact they make big problems when they see a perceived or actual change in you.

As soon as you start changing a little bit your friends pickup on that and want you to stop your change. They will make fun of you and at the same time are internally threatened by it. It tells them that they them self could also change but never want to change for the better. There is a conflict going on between there inner voice telling them to change also and the not willingness to change.

Will your friends hinder or help you?

First they will ignore you and pretend everything is as usual, we see no change, later you will loose those friends one by one. Your outlook in life, the way you handle life and the new future you want for yourself is not in alignment with your current set of friends anymore.

Of curse on the surface you still can and will talk to them, but that deep relationship is gone forever. You feel it, and your friend know it. So, some friendships will drift apart or the old bond will loosen drastically.

Change is good, new friends are better.

Because of your are changing, you will attract new and make new friends in different places. Those new friends will align more closely with your new self.

So basically a lot of things will change. Remember now that you have changed, you will be looking in different places also to find new friends and new relationships.

Still listen to your inner guide.

Always listen to your inner voice when you make a deep change, it will guide you to a new self. It will also help you with your internal struggle to keep you on the path of change.

Norby’s Recommendation:

Make new friends as soon as you can. They will help you with your new found path.

Norby

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